If you have not read the why of Connection Cards, start here.
Here is how we use them on the weekends:
- Everyone who walks into a weekend service gets a Connection Card. It comes on our Loop (all the printed announcements for the weekend; also functions as a guest information center). Everyone gets an Invite Card. It is clipped together with a Bic Round Stic. The greeters in the lobby attempt to get to everyone with a packet. If someone sneaks by the greeters, we ask early in the service if we missed anyone and walk them around the sanctuary.
- At the beginning of the message, the weekend speaker will say in a friendly manner, “If you got a Loop today, you also got a Connection Card. If this is your first time with us, we ask everyone to fill one out every weekend. The front side you let us know who you are. The back side you let us know if you found something in the Loop you want more information about or if you have a prayer request for the church staff. There’s also some check boxes about regular and upcoming stuff. So, check it out. If you happened to be new and you don’t know if you trust us yet, we get that! Fill it out anyway and sit it next to you. If we earn your trust by the end of the service, please drop it in the offering plate when it goes by.”
- We take the offering at the end of the service. Someone will step up and say, “We want to continue our worship today by giving His tithes and our offerings. If this is not your church home, this is for our regular attenders. If you are a guest with us, we would love to have your Connection Card if we have earned your trust today.”
Why the pens?
We give away a Bic pen with every Connection Card every weekend. Many people return them after the service, but we don’t really care. We care that when a guest starts to fill out a Connection Card that a pen is available! A guest will not be asking their pew-mates to borrow a pen. We buy them for less than 10 cents a unit.
This is also a great reason to buy pens with your church name and such on it, although they will cost more. Just make sure that the pen you buy is actually functional. You don’t want pens with your church name on them that doesn’t write!
Why all the Connection Cards?
We ask everyone to fill the Connection Card out. The reason is simple: you are giving your guests cover. If they are trying to hide in the crowd, then they will also give you a Connection Card just like everyone else!
When we got started, I straight up told everyone in the congregation in attendance that the cards were important. If we all want guests to let us know who they are so we can build a bridge to them, we are going to have to all modify our behavior. I said that every weekend for a month and about once a month for the next six. When I was quizzed about it I would tell regulars that if they just wrote their names on the card, that would be sufficient enough each week.
Still, not everyone does. That’s alright because we have enough buy-in from the regulars to give cover to the guests!
Why is this a Nonnegotiable?
There is a a lot of room between being creepy and being disinterested. Your church must find your middle ground. Asking up front for personal info before you have earned trust is creepy. Not making it clear that there is a way to connect with your church will give you the appearance of disinterest. I know you aren’t aloof, but still you are letting people walk out without giving people a chance to give you contract information. You may be praying they come back, hoping you remember their names and that they know how welcome and wanted they are. You may even wake up at night wondering if that family will return. But, if you don’t pave the way back to your front door, you will never build a relationship.
Make the change this week!